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| Grace Dalyrmple Elliott - Met Museum. |
Today I'd like to give a warm welcome to fellow Pen and Sword authors
Joanne Major and Sarah Murden, authors of
An Infamous Mistress - a biography of
Grace Dalrymple Elliott. But what was the connection between Jane Austen and Grace? You can find out more in Joanne and Sarah's guest blog post:
Jane Austen: The Dalrymple and Elliott Connection
Jane Austen’s novel
Persuasion, written in 1816
and published posthumously just months after her death in 1817, has at its
centre the Elliot family – a surname we’re all too familiar with after writing
our biography of the eighteenth-century courtesan Grace Dalrymple Elliott.
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| Jane Austen. |
Anne Elliot, the novel’s heroine, had been persuaded to
break off an early engagement to Captain Wentworth of the Royal Navy and, while
in Bath, was courted by her cousin and heir to the Elliot estate, the recently
widowed and caddish William Elliot.
There is also a Viscountess Dalrymple mentioned in Persuasion,
from an Irish family who is related to the Elliots. Anne’s vain father Sir
Walter and elder sister Elizabeth court Lady Dalrymple’s attention, determined
to make use of their connection to this titled lady (for the finances of the
Elliot family are in a decline – they have to rent out their family estate,
Kellynch Hall).
It’s possible, as Margaret Doody has speculated in Jane
Austen’s Names: Riddles, Persons, Places, that ‘there is a hidden joke, a
potentially dirty meaning, in wishing to see Lady Dalrymple’, because Grace’s notoriety would still be
remembered when Austen was writing – was this a sly dig at Grace, the name
chosen by Austen in the full knowledge that many of her readers would get the
joke, especially with the connection between the names Elliot and Dalrymple?
Grace was still alive at the time, although her star had
faded somewhat and she was living largely in the shadows of society – wouldn’t
you just love to know if she read the novel, and if she did, what her thoughts
were on the names of the characters!
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| Lady Dalrymple, PBS. |
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| Persuasion:Lady Dalrymple and Miss Carteret. |
Austen’s Elliot family had Scottish origins and Sir John
Eliot, Grace Dalrymple’s husband, was a Scotsman, hailing from Peebles. Grace
too was from a Scottish family, although hers was more noble in its origin for
her maternal ancestors were once the Lairds of Blackburn in the Berwickshire
borders. She also counted a countess amongst her close relations for her
maternal aunt, Robinaiana, became the Countess of Peterborough, although only
after many years of being the Earl’s mistress first, a path her infamous niece
was later to follow with significantly less success. Grace never got a title;
she was divorced by her husband Dr John Eliot before he became Sir John and her
subsequent lover, the Earl (and future Marquess) of Cholmondeley refused to
make her his Countess.
If Grace is recalled somewhat in the character of Lady
Dalrymple, was her husband Sir John Eliot at all the inspiration for Sir Walter
Elliot? Both baronets, Sir John and Sir Walter, were vain and self-satisfied
men (although Sir John was certainly more careful of his fortune than Austen’s
Sir Walter), and neither man had a male heir (John Eliot’s son by Grace died as
an infant, and his only other male progeny was born illegitimately to an
unknown woman).
There is another similarity too – Sir Walter takes into his
house, ostensibly as a companion to his daughter Elizabeth, a Mrs Clay, an
impoverished widow with children to provide for and who has designs on becoming
the next Lady Elliot for all that she is beneath Sir Walter on the social ladder.
Both before and after his divorce from Grace, Sir John Eliot embarked upon a
series of affairs with women well below him socially (one was a tea dealer from
the Tottenham Road). At his death his final mistress was, like Austen’s Mrs
Clay, angling for marriage and a title – and hoping that her daughter (by
another man) would benefit from Sir John’s fortune to the detriment of his own
illegitimate offspring.
N.B. – while Sir John was an Eliot, after her divorce Grace
habitually spelled her surname differently, using both Elliot and Elliott.
Sources:
Jane Austen's Names: Riddles, Persons, Places by Margaret
Doody, University of Chicago Press, 2015.
Divorced wife, infamous mistress, prisoner in France
during the French Revolution and the reputed mother of the Prince of Wales’
child, notorious eighteenth-century courtesan Grace Dalrymple Elliott lived an
amazing life in eighteenth- and early nineteenth-century London and Paris.
Strikingly tall and beautiful, later lampooned as ‘Dally
the Tall’ in newspaper gossip columns, she left her Scottish roots and convent
education behind, to re-invent herself in a ‘marriage-a-la-mode’, but before
she was even legally an adult she was cast off and forced to survive on just
her beauty and wits.
The authors of this engaging and, at times, scandalous
book intersperse the history of Grace’s tumultuous life with anecdotes of her
fascinating family, from those who knew Thomas Jefferson and George Washington,
and who helped to abolish slavery, to those who were, like Grace, mistresses of
great men.
Whilst this book is the most definitive biography of
Grace Dalrymple Elliott ever written, it is much more than that; it is Grace’s
family history which traces her ancestors from their origin in the Scottish
borders, to their move south to London. It follows them to France, America,
India, Africa and elsewhere, offering a broad insight into the social history
of the Georgian era, comprising the ups and downs, the highs and lows of life
at that time.
This is the remarkable and detailed story of Grace set,
for the first time, in the context of her wider family and told more completely
than ever before.
You can also visit Joanne and Sarah at
All Things Georgian where they blog about anything and everything to do with the Georgian era.
Images supplied by Joanne and Sarah:
Grace Dalrymple Elliott by Thomas Gainsborough. Metropolitan Museum of Art.
Tilly Tremayne as Lady Dalrymple in the PBS version of
Persuasion.
Jane Austen, coloured copy of a drawing by her sister
Cassandra, held by the University of Texas.
Lady Dalrymple and [her daughter] Miss Carteret escorted by
Mr Elliot and Colonel Wallis, from a 1909 copy of Persuasion.